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Love the analogies! 🌊

“Your first instinct is to compete with the image of where you thought you were going to be, with where you actually are.” This speaks volumes to someone living with a chronic illness or when experiencing the grief of loss. You can never quite believe you’re swamped under the wave when that wasn’t the plan.

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Thanks Amber ☺️ Feel free to use it if it helps your message land with your chronic illness peeps. No I don’t need credit. I don’t know where it came from anyways. 😆🙏

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Nice to have your voice back on Substack David. What a turbulent time, and no, I don't think you owe us any apology or even explanation. Take your time, your wellbeing and inner journey comes first before writing content for others ❤️

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Thank you Vicki that’s a lovely welcome back. Your little blue avatar is a welcome oasis. 💙

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Beautiful,and touching piece of writing, well worth the wait. I hope you begin to find some peace.

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Thanks Tam it means a lot to have your graceful support. 🥹

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Thanks Amber ☺️ Feel free to use it if it helps your message land with your chronic illness peeps. No I don’t need credit. I don’t know where it came from anyways. 😆🙏

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@amber I’ve done that thing again where I reply in the wrong place 🙈

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Your writing is so welcome, Dave. It’s timing and pace is a comfort and reassuring mirror for the parts of me who can’t live to kinds of cultural expectations, and feel subject to the idea that ‘can’t’ reflects a failure in me. Maybe when writing arrives ‘out of the blue’ of the ether and chaos of experience, it’s draws with it the hint of a rhythm or orbit that’s far more expansive and less tangible in the 9-5? Less tangible and so, very much needed. I just celebrate that you do what you do, and offer a window into your world, in your own good time. (Blather: I could do worse than go write my own post!🤣) 💚

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Sounds like a wonderful piece of writing brewing there Sarah! Yes go write it!! 😆🙌💖 Thanks for the heartfelt encouragement and wisdom. 🙏

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Hi there friend! Good to hear from ya.

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Oh hey my lovely! When’s the next instalment from the brambles? x

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The question of the ages!

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😆 Thorny issue? 👀😅

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I am happy to have your writing here, and take all the time you need to process, feel, and listen to the laughter of this kiddos.

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Thanks Emma. That’s a kindness. 🙏

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You’re welcome.

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Pierre is easily my favourite character in War and Peace. I find his emotional journey and his lack of confidence so touching. He has a wonderful character development arc in store. I can highly recommend Paul Dano’s performance in the recent TV adaptation.

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Ooooh thanks Miranda! Will be lovely to get my Pierre fix once the slow read is over. He’ll be a big miss. I hadn’t thought of him lacking in confidence but he does seem unsure in the world. 🙏💖

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That’s the quality Dano captures so beautifully

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Oooh that’ll be a treat! Can’t wait! ☺️

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You take the time you need. But I’m glad to hear from you. 💙💙💙

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Thanks Sarah 🙏💙💙💙

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